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Upstream Lifestyle

Don't Let it Overwhelm You: How Going Upstream Can Save Us Time (and Money)

March 16, 20253 min read

Most of us start our wellness journey by addressing symptoms—more energy, less stress, better sleep. But what if we took a different approach? Instead of managing problems after they arise, we can go upstream and address the causes of those problems in the first place.

The Upstream Approach to Wellness

Think of a river. People are struggling, exhausted from being pulled under the current. You could rescue them one by one—or you could walk upstream and find out why they’re falling in.This is foundational wellness. Rather than relying on quick fixes, we focus on strategies that last—the simple, effective actions that build a strong, healthy life.

Two Tools to Guide Your Journey

There’s no one-size-fits-all approach, but two powerful frameworks can help:

1. The Pillars of Lifestyle Medicine

These science-backed principles provide the foundation for well-being:

  • Nutrition: Whole, unprocessed foods that nourish and sustain.

  • Physical Activity: Movement that fits your body and lifestyle.

  • Restorative Sleep: Consistent, high-quality rest.

  • Stress Management: Mindfulness, breathwork, and emotional resilience.

  • Healthy Relationships: Strong social connections and support.

  • Avoiding Risky Substances: Minimizing alcohol, smoking, and toxins.

  • Meaning & Purpose: Engaging in fulfilling, purpose-driven activities.

2. The Wheel of Life

This self-assessment tool looks at eight areas of life: health, relationships, career, finances, personal growth, spirituality, fun, and environment. A balanced wheel leads to a smoother, more fulfilling journey.

How to Apply These Tools

  • Identify Your Gaps – Which area of your wellness feels unbalanced?

  • Choose Simple Actions – Find strategies you will do, not just what sounds ideal.

  • Introduce Novelty – Keep things fresh with small, enjoyable changes.

  • Measure Progress & Adjust – Track what works and refine as needed.

Wellness That Works for You

The key to foundational wellness is simplicity and sustainability. It’s not about following rigid programs—it’s about creating a lifestyle that supports you. Start small, stay consistent, and keep moving upstream toward the life you’re meant to live. Doing all we do aligned with our won personal passion, stayle and core valuedscan transform our health journey from a daunting chore into an inspiring adventure. Embrace the uniqueness of your path, and allow your personal values to guide your choices. Remember, wellness is not a destination but a lifelong journey, rich with opportunities for growth and self-discovery.

Celebrate Small Wins

On this journey, it's important to recognize and celebrate your progress, no matter how small. Every step forward is a step toward a healthier, more fulfilling life. Whether it's preparing a nutritious meal, taking a walk in nature, or practicing a moment of mindfulness, each action contributes to your overall well-being.

Seek Support and Community

You don't have to travel this path alone. Surround yourself with a supportive community—friends, family, or wellness groups—who uplift and motivate you. Share your experiences, learn from others, and build a network that encourages your growth. Together, you'll find strength and inspiration to continue moving upstream.

Embrace the Journey

As you navigate your wellness journey, remember to be kind to yourself. There will be challenges and setbacks, but each offers a valuable lesson. Embrace the ups and downs, and remain open to the possibilities that each new day brings. By focusing on foundational wellness, you are not only improving your health but also enriching your life with joy, purpose, and connection.

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Juli Reynolds

Juli is a nurse with over 30 years experience who coaches professional women, nurses and entrepreneurs as they pursue their personal and professional goals. She is trained in research, aromatherapy, breathwork, mindfulness - bringing all of that to the coaching experience.

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